Gannett Health Services
Ho Plaza
Cornell University
Ithaca, NY 14853-3101
Tel: 607 255-5155
Email: gannett@cornell.edu
Some students refrain from sexual activity in order to prevent pregnancy (and disease). What you decide to do with a partner will depend on your reasons for choosing abstinence (e.g., enotional readiness, physical compfort, personal values, pregnancy or disease prevention).
Many individuals are comfortable defining abstinence to include kissing and hugging, even some other forms of intimacy such as fondling. But some forms of intimacy could still put you at risk of pregnancy, even though sexual intercourse does not occur.
If you choose abstinence to prevent unwanted pregnancy, it is important to understand that genital contact without penetration can still be enough for an unwanted pregnancy to occur. If you choose to be intimate, avoid getting ejaculate anywhere near the vaginal opening (such as upper thighs, lower abdomen, etc.) Sperm have been known to swim into the vaginal opening. Condoms can provide extra protection and assurance.
If you are concerned about the risks of unwanted pregnancy, consider talking with one of Gannett's Clinical Counselors. They can help you think through how to protect yourself or your partner.